на память:

portsnap fetch update

apachectl stop
nginx -s stop
/usr/local/etc/rc.d/php-fpm stop
/usr/local/etc/rc.d/mysql-server stop

pkg_version -v | grep need
portupgrade «pkg_name»
cd /usr/ports/lang/php5-extensions/
make config
make install clean

/usr/local/etc/rc.d/mysql-server start
/usr/local/etc/rc.d/php-fpm start
nginx
apachectl start